Life Lessons Women In Their 30s Wish They Learned Sooner
Have people ever told you that their 30s were so much better than their 20s? Those who share this often say it’s because they were more sure of themselves and had figured more of themselves out as they got older.
BuzzFeed talked to women in their 30s to find out the life lessons they’ve learned that have helped them, especially the ones they wish they’d learned sooner. Here are some of the best:
- “If you aren't going to accept most invites, you'll stop getting invited.”
- “There's nothing wrong with picking a boring job that pays your bills and allows you to have the time and money to do what you love.”
- “Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. Respect comes with character, not age.”
- “Don't be so afraid, and take more risks. Get out of your comfort zone more. The sooner you learn to say 'no' without feeling bad about it, the better. Oh, and the right shade of red lipstick is a game changer.”
- “It's OK to be in a committed relationship, but don't sacrifice your potential for anyone else. Invest in yourself early on — you won't regret it.”
- “Sometimes being alone is better than being in the wrong company.”
- “After a lifetime of hearing about the importance of safe sex, I fully expected the men I slept with to be serious about condoms. I had no idea that I would have to advocate and fight for something so basic.”
- “You don't have to 'stick it out' when something is mentally or physically unbearable. It's OK to walk away when you need to.”
- “It's an acceptable option to take your time and play around before you find a career. Just be aware that there are trade-offs — like not being able to afford a house when you're ready to settle down, or having all of your superiors be younger than you.”
- “It's not selfish to prioritize yourself. Love yourself. Make decisions that benefit you and not anyone else.”
- “Just because you love someone, it doesn’t mean they are good for you.”
- “Always ask — for help, advice, a raise, whatever. The worst thing that can happen is to get a 'no,' and that is OK.”
Source: BuzzFeed